If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be.

Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends.”

A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don’t stay because you
think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for
staying when things are not better.  The only person you can control in
a relationship is you.  Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a
bunch of different women.

He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in
how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a
man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man’s behavior.  Change comes from within.

Don’t EVER make him
feel he is more important than you are… even if he has more education
or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man,
nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else’s man.

If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is a two way street.

You need time to heal
between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage… deal
with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

You should never look
for someone to COMPLETE you…a relationship consists of two WHOLE
individuals…look for someone complimentary…not supplementary.

Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes…when a man always know where you are,
and you’re always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.

Never move into his mother’s house. Never co-sign for a man.

Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need.

Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Share this with other
ladies….. You’ll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and
another woman prepare. They say it takes a minute to find a special
person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire
lifetime to forget them.

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